بِرَغْبَةِ بَعْضِهِمْ إِلَى بَعْضٍ، وَرَهْبَةِ بَعْضِهِمْ مِنْ بَعْضٍ identifies two pressures: seeking benefits from others and fearing harm from them.
The report does not condemn all politeness, practical cooperation, or cordial disagreement. The danger arises when apparent closeness conceals betrayal, exploitation, or a readiness to harm.
Example 1: Being respectful despite disagreement is good character.
Example 2: Pretending affection to gain favors while planning to violate someone’s rights is insincere and harmful.