SituationPoetic expressionMeaningDesire for connectionلُبَانَةAcknowledging emotional attachmentCourteous treatmentوَاحْبُ ... بِالْجَزِيلِShowing generosity and considerationBreakdown of the bondظَلَعَتْ وَزَاغَ قِوَامُهَاCondition under which separation may follow
The sequence is the poet’s social and literary judgment, not a universal legal rule. It ties continuity to responsible conduct: the mere age or label of a relationship is not enough.