Love is not fulfilled by emotional statements alone. Accurate transmission, care in prayer, justice in dealings, keeping promises, and kindness show how love becomes conduct.
بِأَهْلِهِ وَمَالِهِ mentions “family and wealth,” a forceful expression of longing, not an instruction to abandon family rights or waste property.
For example, someone may enjoy reading the Prophetic biography yet deceive customers. Genuine love should reform both learning and behavior.