When deciding whether to help, discourage, give, or withhold something, ask whether the choice rests on sound principles or merely anger, favoritism, or revenge. Sometimes genuine care requires correcting a friend; at other times justice requires honoring the rights of someone one dislikes.
Example 1: Correct a friend kindly even if the correction is unwelcome.
Example 2: Respect another person’s legitimate rights despite personal disagreement.
Example 3: Give charity according to real need and sincere purpose rather than public admiration.
Repeating لِلَّهِ four times reminds us that faith should influence everyday relationships and decisions.