Working for children’s welfare is commendable, but their future must not be used to justify taking others’ rights. Fear for one’s family must likewise not become an excuse to evade a required just action.
مَبْخَلَةٌ and مَجْبَنَةٌ describe two distinct risks: excessive withholding and fear that deters right action. Good parental care combines provision with fairness and moral example.